Juz read my colleague's baby blog and her latest post seemed to be a ranting on her hubby if I am not wrong. Somehow she felt that all Mummys have to "do-it-all" & "know-it-all" while the Daddy is always a not so proactive caregiver.
This leads me to pondering what type of Daddy will Dearie be in 3 wks time? Dearie is also like my colleague's hubby, can spend loads of time with the computer and games (think mine worse cos Dearie is into Com games, PS3 AND PSP). Recalled we bought a book in US on "Everything a father-to-be needs to know" and guess what? I've finished reading the book on Dearie's behalf and he hasn't really like read more than a page... Guess the 1st line on the 1st chap should tell all Fathers-to-be to first give up on all their addictive habits, well if they bother flipping the pages in the 1st place?
Funny thing was that Dearie was praising himself last night after watchin some HK drama show. Commented that he is unlike the actor in the show who enjoys going out to meet friends for drinks in town at night and abandoning his wife. Told me that I am "lucky" to have a hubby like him! A husband who will give up work to rush home to attend to his wife's needs and one who goes home straight after work to accompany his wife. Haha... Well I do admit that DEarie does spend loads of time with me and he doesn't abandon me lah. Eventhough he can be engrossed in his games at times while I will be usually reading books, online surfing or watchin tv in the room alone, he will constantly check on me (like once/twice every 1 hr) to see if I need anything in particular. Eversince I am preggy, he will like constantly keep asking me if I want to drink milk every now and then. Wondering if he is feeding me or baby? Hmm...
Anyway, the real deal will arrive in a few weeks and that will be the time to see how Daddy will fare. And of cos how Mummy will fare too. Somehow, we are kinda lax with my mummy the Know-it-all + Do-it-all Super Nanny on the frontline. Anyway, I believe Dearie will not let Baby Javier and Mummy down. :)))
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